As some of you know, I have a formspring.me account, and I must tell you, it has been pretty cool for me. Last week I received a good question. It is commonly asked, a simple mix up and easily answered. At work, I probably answer this question a few times a month. Before you think “is my questions relevant, important or stupid” … ask it anyway. If you have or a friend has wondered, so has someone else.
Q: If a girl can orgasm from anal does that mean there’s a “g-spot” there?
A: First a little anatomy briefing. If we’re all the same during development in the womb then where did all the penis go while the vulva formed? Simple… all of that sensitive erectile tissue created the clit, the vagina, labia majora/minora, the taint and around the anal opening – so 1 reason it feels good – is because it just does. Also, the anal rings/sphincters are REALLY packed with nerve endings, so its really intense for anyone on the receiving end.
There is a thin line between pain and pleasure, and if you have anal sex the right way (and without anal ease) there is no pain.
Pain is your body’s way of saying “WTF? SLOW DOWN” If you hurt yourself, you wont know because you wont feel it. Also, if you can’t FEEL it, why do it?
There is no “Anal G-Spot” for women (men have a prostate, women don’t). What is happening is indirect stimulation through the walls of the colon to the actual G-Spot inside of the vagina, or another spot towards the back of the vagina called the Anterior Fornix is being stimulated from another angle.
So in short, you’re stimulating indirectly or directly some really special spots on a woman (throw in stimulating her clit and watch her go crazy) and thus making her orgasm…hard!
Tada! See, that wasn’t so bad, was it? Now you give it a try, ask me something!
<3 Jane
